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Suddenly Single: Texting Girls Gets Quick Results

Last Friday night I suddenly found myself single. Someone I had been seeing for a few months basically flaked on me. No surprise: wonderful (and hot) person but she’d never known a stable relationship in her life. I was prepared.

Most guys might have been upset, maybe had a few+ drinks, maybe hit the bars. Hey, it had been a few months of maybe the best sex in my life and it was over. I didn’t miss a beat. I grabbed my phone and started texting.

First, Bonny who I’ve known since we were in diapers. Ran into her about a month ago for the first time in about 20 years and she’s grown and is hyper cute! Sent a one word text, a nickname she had when prepubescent that very few people would know. She didn’t reply but I wasn’t waiting. We’ll catch up later I’m sure.

Immediately texted Dom next. We met while out with mutual friends a couple months before and really hit it off but neither of us were single at the time. She answered immediately, happy to hear from me, and definitely seems single now. Busy at a birthday party tonight, and we set a date for Wednesday.

Next, what is her name? She is an extremely attractive friend of a coworker, we met while grabbing an after drink work and she didn’t seem at all interested, but she took a goofy picture of my coworker and I and I got her to text me the picture (this can be a killer way to get numbers – getting women to text you pictures).

I didn’t remember her name, she won’t remember my number, what to do? Simple, I texted her the picture back along with «Remember me? Not only found this picture, but suddenly, mysteriously, and surprisingly free tonight. Meet for a drink? Let me know or I’ll turn into a pumpkin soon.»

After 10 minutes I got a reply. «Monica» only had about 20 minutes but would happily meet me in the same place as before. She looked even better than I remembered and was lots of fun. The only 20 minutes became over an hour and she had to leave for a dinner party she was now late for. We are getting together next week again. Very very promising. Can I just say «I really dig this chick»?

I did get to the bar about 5 minutes before Monica and kept texting. Three no replies, at least not immediate replies. One reply from a stupidly cute but very weird young blonde medical doctor I dated briefly. We never broke up, just drifted apart. Should I give her another chance? She answered politely but didn’t seem very interested which answers that question. Plenty of other options.

Hmmm, how about that veterinarian Amy I met? She is way way younger than me, but gave me her number «just in case.» I don’t think the number was only related to the dog! She answered quickly but was «on call.» It’s dinner at my place Sunday night. We’ll see. . .

So a few minutes texting resulted in a short but very promising encounter with Monica and we are getting together next week, dinner with Amy at my place Sunday, and a date with Dom Wednesday night.

Three things you should take away here:

  1. I took immediate action! I was essentially dumped but didn’t let it slow me down. I sent the first texts from her driveway!
  2. I had «potentials» stacked up – potentially awesome women who I had numbers for and who just might be interested in me (and obviously several are).
  3. The power of texting! It simply works and whether you are dating 60 year old grannies (they text their daughters and granddaughters), 18 year old college chicks, or anywhere in between you simply need to text.

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