- DATING, LOVE

How To Win A Girls Heart

So you’ve finally found the perfect girl, the girl of your dreams but unfortunately she doesn’t feel the same way you do. When she looks at you she only sees you as a friend but you know if you had even the slightest chance to be with her, you would treat her right, you could show her the time of her life, show her what she’s been missing and be the PERFECT BOYFRIEND !!!

So how do you get that chance to prove to her you’re Mr. Right for her. Show her that all these other guys she’s been with are all wrong for her and that she deserves better. How do you get her attention, how do you win her affection and love and finally Win Her Heart.

Just like in the movie Hitched starring Will Smith. It’s called SHOCK and AWE Where you need to get her attention in a HUGE WAY. In the movie Allegra Cole, this gorgeous, sophisticated rich girl, who can get any guy she wants, ends up falling for your average looking overweight Joe Schmoe. Yes it’s just a movie but the concept behind it holds true. You need to know how to get her attention, learn what it takes to get her to notice you. You need to find that window of opportunity to prove to her that You’re the Perfect Guy for her. A chance to step up to the plate and play hardball and get that Home Run in the bottom of the ninth.

Will Smith’s character Hitch says:

Hitch My Job is not to Deceive, it’s to create Opportunities.

Allegra Like the Boardroom?

Hitch Would you have noticed him otherwise?

All Will smith’s character did was give Albert (the average Joe Schmoe) the chance and opportunity to show her who he really was.

Just like anything else in life, Job interviews, Talent shows, Competitions, if you want something bad enough you need to give it all you got and make sure you stand out from the crowd, differentiate yourself from everyone else that’s competing for the end prize in your case The girl of your dreams Heart !!!

So how do you win a girls heart?

1.) By Getting Her Attention in a good way !!! If you don’t get this right, you’ll never be able to prove yourself to her.

2.) Next when you have her attention you need to start Smoozing her with your Witt and Charm by being the Perfect Gentleman

3.) Lastly, you make her Fall in Love with you and WIN HER HEART !!!

To do this you need to posses the following traits:

Great Smile (Stand out from the Crowd & Enter a room looking Together like you have the FULL PACKAGE)

Learn to be the Perfect Gentleman (open the door for her always, be gentle and polite around her, always show your manners, give them the attention she craves so much for. Go out of your way to help her with things they are doing to show how sweet and nice of a guy you really are, let them fall for the nice cute sweet innocent guy). Always treat her right, talk & listen to her at all times & Pay attention to her needs.
Be Confident with Attitude but not Cocky. At the same time trying to be the perfect gentleman you also need to show you’re the Alpha Male, Masculine, Strong and can take control. Woman don’t want someone who’s weak, timid, indecisive but most importantly someone who lacks confidence.
Always be well Groomed  Girls can’t resist a sharped dressed man, so Dress to impress and learn how to groom properly, Practice good hygiene, of course and take care of yourself.
Poses a Sense of Humor (everyone always love a funny guy. People are more comfortable around humorous people and tend to open up quicker)
Connecting with People (interact, socialize, make a connection with everyone to show your very outgoing and friendly)

Being Seen as a Social Center of a Room without putting all the effort. You don’t want it to seem like your trying too hard to impress everyone.
Have a great personality and always be Positive, by showing interest in everything, being friendly and up to the challenge. Never be negative and talk bad about things because it shows insecurity.
Pay attention and Listen to her Always when she’s talking, one day when you mention or do something for her, that she told you about. She will be in astonishment and awe when she realizes you were paying attention to her. These are the little things that girls remember and love the most.
Do Things that she’s not use too. Catch them off guard with nice surprise’s but don’t overdo it. Use the WOOOO factor to win their hearts. If she says no one ever gets me flowers get her flowers. If she says I’ve never been to this restaurant Make reservations and take her there

Create EXCITEMENT in her life. Ladies who are bored of the same old daily routine day in and day out will be enticed, intrigued and more attracted to you if you bring some excitement in to her life. Not just show her a good time but an AMAZING Time. She will want to see more of you and won’t be able to get enough of you if you can bring that Excitement and sense of Adventure in to her life. That Danger, Living on the edge feeling that all women seek and look for where she feels like she’s actually living.

After you’ve done the following, implement the following into your game plan, to take it to the next level.

Always have GAME !!! and know how to HUSTLE. Be Agile and Run Mad Game to impress her. But don’t overdue it where you come off as a cocky, pompous jerk. Theirs an art form to running Proper Game.
Learn the Art of Flirting give complements but don’t overdue it. Flatter them enough without giving them a big head.
Be prepared in whatever or wherever you’re going, show her you are in control and have any situation in control.
Learn the 2 steps forward 1 step back process (Everyone always wants something they can’t have) Give her enough but not too much, just enough that she craves and can’t stop thinking about you all the time.
Words are the Way to her Heart Always be Witty and know when to use Lines. Beef up your vocabulary and read up and learn good but not cheesy lines for every perfect situation.
Never overdue anything to make you seem like a Stalker
Use technology/Social Media to your advantage with things like Facebook, Twitter, MySpace, Email, Texting.

Know when you can win her attention more by knowing her menstrual cycle (The day she starts her period, it’s usually 28 days until her next period. The first 2 weeks after she’s done her period, she will be at her best mood and you can easily persuade and smooze her. During the last 2 weeks before her period, the 3rd week is when she PMSing and the last week, she is usually when she is about to get her period and when she is at her worst mood and very irritable, so learn this cycle to your advantage.
Know how important First Impressions Are. Putting up a front to get her attention to make yourself stand out from the crowd.
Show you’re interested but you still don’t really care to much. (Also part of the 2 Steps Forward, 1 Step back Process)
Never be the tough bad guy (Overrated)
Offer comfort when someone hurt’s her

If you are in the Beginning Stages. When the girl you want either knows of you, she see’s you from time to time or she doesn’t know you at all. Then you have to have a different approach and you have to plan your first encounter, meeting, outing or date properly, so you can use the Shock and Awe tactic to get her attention to really intrigue her, so that she will want to see more of you.

Basics and Things to Consider in this Beginning Stage:

Learn how to be nice to your potential crushes without making it seem like your hitting on them or coming on to strong. Which if done wrong, you will do the opposite of what you want to accomplish and turn them off and want nothing to do with you at all.

Ask them to lunch or a coffee. Pick somewhere upbeat, fast paced and semi-loud so there’s never silence and things always going on around you to use a distractions, props or conversation beginnings. Never a choose a quiet place at first, like the movies or a romantic restaurant. This will come later but for a first outing choose a more hip and upbeat place. Always let them do all the talking, to either let them vent, let things out, or tell you about themselves. Only give generic but somehow detailed information about yourself. You don’t want to tell them everything about yourself on the first date and have nothing else to talk about on your second date. Learn how to talk only when there’s silence and talk about them, never about yourself. But never, let it become silent and awkward.

Remember that just like anything else in life you want something that bad enough, you can accomplish anything you want when you put in the effort. Getting the Love of your Life to Fall for you is no different.

Please visit soon, where I will be posting the actual step by step process on How to Win the Girl of your Dreams Heart !!!

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