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How To Pick Up Women In Malls

Use *opinion openers* to approach and interact with women at suburban shopping malls.
Most men seem to think that the only place to meet women is in clubs or in bars. However, there is yet another very promising venue to meet women — you got it — at the suburban shopping mall! In fact, many women do not go out to clubs or bars so you will never find these hotties there. Does this mean we should miss out on interacting with them? Of course not and since I like to dominate all domains and turfs… I go to the mall also and so should you.

Now the way we approach”pick up and seduction”in a mall is very different than how we approach seduction in night time venues like night clubs. Let me outline the major differences for you.
Night Club
Although women may not”want”to be approached, they at least”expect”it since a night venue is a place to mingle socialize, schmooze, flirt, pick up, etc.
Also, in a club a woman’s buying temperature is pumped up due to the lights, the music, the hot-looking crowd, the three chocolate martinis she has already consumed, her sexy dress, her eight hour hair-do, etc. What this means is that she is in”club character”– flirty, open-minded mode, and her emotions have taken over her logic.

So you can walk up and introduce yourselves Say”hi, “be direct with your intent, flirt, be somewhat forward in your approach — remember this will only work if you have the right underlying confident attitude and body language, speaking of which in a club where it is loud and noisy, you need to have superb body language and loud, powerful vocal projection, more so than any”verbal lingo”or”game.”In fact, it is pretty much all about your non-verbal communication here!
To add to this, most women go to clubs in groups, so you need to know how to work groups, be cool with and show leadership over the male members within the group, be cool with the women, and simultaneously learn how to attract your object of desire.

It is also more difficult to get cozy and comfortable with a woman as most night venues are packed and don’t have very much sitting area. So will need to”bounce”a group or single woman to another venue like a lounge or a quieter part of the club if there is one. Now, if you really feel like kicking things up to the Motley Crue levels just invite her back to your house for some hot tub rub a dub dub!

So now that we’ve outlined some major factors in night club game, let’s contrast that to”Mall Game.”
Shopping Mall
Women are in”work”or”normal”mode and generally have a guard up against men who try to hit on them
So, if you are to stop a woman dead in her tracks successfully, to make her want to talk to you, you can walk up to her and use a casual direct approach.
Like the one I use very successfully:
“Hey… I am McMaax.. you caught my eye and I just had to come up to see if you were interesting, on top of being pretty. “(Said in a very tongue-in-cheek manner.)
But more often than not… a woman can make her decision on whether or not she wants you to stay, on your looks, style… as there is not much else she has to work with. Now although this opener is great because it cuts through all the BS and states our intention, it is also not consistently guaranteed to work as not every woman will find you attractive nor will want to make the decision if she wants to talk to you or not, simply by you stating to her that you like her. Also, you will come on her”pick up radar”and will sometimes get a very “Thanks… but no thanks”sentiment.

So now the question is, how can we make all women stop to talk to us?
See… it is universally known that all women love to give their opinion especially on relationships and in fashion. And the topic of fashion is perfectly suited for a venue like the mall. Therefore, I use what is called an”opinion opener.”

So we can use this to open and get them engaged in chatter. For instance…
You can ask a woman to give you an opinion about fashion. For instance, my field-tested”opinion opener”that gets women to stop to talk to me in malls is this:
“Hey… I need a quick female opinion on something… but what color do you think would look good with a white suit for me… pink or blue? ”
Now do I really need an opinion about this… NO… however, I know for a fact that it is the only way to consistently… get most women to stop to talk to me. It is also because it is very asexual and in fact that throws many beautiful women off balance since unlike most men you will not be indicating any general interest and if your body language and non-verbal communication are tight she will wonder why you are not interested in her. This will cause her to start to chase you a little bit for your intention.

Anyways, once you get her answer on the color she prefers on you then you can bust her balls on it. For instance, if she picks pink then I give her a hi five and call her adventurous… since she picked out a color that by tradition is non-typically masculine. If she picks blue. I call her a dork and say:
“Oh no… I’m rather disappointed in your fashion sense… “in a very tongue-in-cheek manner.

All you want to do at this point is to tease her — in a playful and flirtatious manner — and keep going until she gets attracted. See… the whole point here is to take a harmless, asexual”opinion opener”and convert the dialogue into a flirtatious interplay between you and her. Once you have some level of attraction going on, then you can build comfort in the mall more easily, as there are benches, restaurants, cafes and much more”comfort building”locations where you can suggest the both of you go to get to know each other.

I would suggest the move to a comfort location like a cafe by using wording such as:
“You know I would love to talk to you a bit more, but I am dying of thirst… so come join me for a latte… I’ll buy. ”

The second difference in”Mall Game”is that you don’t have to deal with competition from other men and women usually go to the mall alone or at most with”one”other friend. so although you still have to work a group it is a much smaller one. In this case, simply pay a little bit more attention to her friend than her and make her feel important. At the same time, get the friend on your side by asking her:
“Hey… What happened to your friend’s hands… ? “(Said pointing to the target’s hands.)
Or…
“You know you should give your friend there some fashion advice. “(You say this to the obstacle about the target.) Now remember to say this with a playful tone… not in an insulting manner.
This will often make the target want to chase you to redeem her self-esteem and her status which you gave to the other (usually average girl) that no other man does.
The energy level of a mall is much lower.

In the mall you can afford to run long routines, tell stories, spend more time getting to know her. Also”Mall Game”is less about”attitude and body language”and more about”interesting verbal chatter between you and the woman,”unlike in loud clubs where you can’t really talk a lot but need to rely heavily on your non-verbals and as I have stated, “Day Game”is a lot about being interesting and having interesting conversations with women, because you CAN due to the low noise levels and also lack of time constraints.

So when you approach, lower your voice a lot lower than you would when in a club and also tone down the body language from a flirtatious and sexual one to a more non-sexual one initially.

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