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Back to the Fundamentals of Seduction

We’ve been getting a slew of questions lately regarding how to seduce the”one woman. “Whether it be the hot woman in your chemistry class, the woman who works in the same office as you, or the woman you see at the strip club you visit on a daily basis, the fundamental idea still applies: Never make one woman your one-and-only hope!

Focusing all your attention on only one woman opens up a host of problems. We’ve said this before, but we need to say it again because it’s so damn easy to make this mistake.
When you only focus on only one woman what you’re basically doing is betting all your money on one stock. You’re saying to yourself, “This will definitely work out and so I am not going to pursue or even work on dating any other women.”The reality of the situation is that the woman you’re currently obsessed with will probably not end up with you. Harsh to say, but true. So instead of facing up to the harsh reality, and taking a risk to find out if she even knows you exist or is interested in you, most of us live in a dream world where this woman loves to have sex with us and is our captive sex genie who lives in our bedroom and never complicates our lives.

Lets face it, if you’re only interested in a short term sexual relationship, the chances are very high that the woman will flake out on you and never talk to you again, or just stop returning your calls entirely. Even when you are dating a woman, you should still have other women in your life. Once again this comes back to facing facts: most relationships don’t work out.

Think about your life experience for a minute. How often have relationships start out wonderfully and then, without any warning, end? How many women have you talked to and even asked out, and had those women go to bed with you or become your girlfriend? For most of us, seduction is a long-term game that requires A LOT of women in the pipeline and is full of failures, breakups, women turning psycho, and sexual encounters that stop before we can ejaculate. Therefore, it’s crucial that we all create some sort of backup plan.

To create a backup plan means we have several women in the system at any given time. Having a backup plan means we have women at different levels in our Seduction Spectrum; some we are sleeping with, some we’ve only gone on a Priming Date with, some we’re flirting with online, some we talk to each time we go to the coffee shop, etc. As a rule, we know that if one woman flakes out or doesn’t want to see us anymore, we have someone eagerly waiting for us. A backup plan at its best has at least two women in your system that you can sleep with at any given time, and several other women you could ask out on a

Priming Date.

To sum up: 1. Be realistic with the odds that most relationships do not work out and create a backup plan. 2. Stop dreaming about the women around you and actually ask them out, and find out if they like you. 3. Do not make a woman your one and only hope!

Best of luck!

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