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Why She Is Not Calling You Back – 3 Reasons Why You Don’t Get The Call Back

So, you were out one night having a really good time with some friends and along the way you met a woman and got her phone number. In your memory, everything went well and you were riding that high you get when you meet someone new and have thoughts about things working out. You did what everyone says that you are supposed to do. You waited the standard three day period before you called her up. And you got her voice mail and left what you thought was a pretty charming message and were expecting her to call back.

You waited. You waited some more.

The call back never came. How is it that you could think that you did everything RIGHT, and you still did not get the call back from her? Did you do something wrong and screw things up somewhere? You are perplexed and disappointed. That incredible high has now turned into a depressing low. Why didn’t she call back?

These are 3 reasons that are common for why you don’t get the call back from a woman:

  1. Waiting the standard three days was the WRONG thing to do.
    I’m of the mindset that the status quo is not always the right thing,   and in this case,   I think that it is definitely true.   Forget what every dating advice expert tells you about the three day rule when it comes to calling a woman back.   That might have been the thing to do back in 1995,   but it’s a new age.   We have instant ways of communicating and most people have pretty short attention spans.   If the vibe was right,   you can call her up before the three days is up.
  2. You did not make the impression on her that you thought you did.
    The mind can play tricks on us and it does it all of the time. One way that the mind can trick you is to make you believe that a woman had just as good of a time as you did. It could be just because you want it to be that way so badly, that you create this setting in your head where you did everything right. I used to watch a dating show some years ago where they would interview the man and the woman right after the date. It was funny just how many times the guy would think that the date went perfect adn the woman walked away thinking that he was a total dud. It may be harsh to think about it this way… but sometimes the truth is HARSH.
  3. You are thinking about it too much.
    I’ve had women not call back for a couple of weeks and then when they did, they were all ready to have some fun. Sometimes you can think these things through too much and that may be the case here. Just because you want the phone call to come right away, does not mean that it will. And just because it does not come right away, it does not always mean that you blew it.

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