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How to Approach Women in Bars and Nightclubs – Tips to Help You Get More Than Just a Dance

We all know that the easiest place that any guy can go out and meet and interact with women is to either go to a bar or a nightclub. Any weekend where you feel like you do not want to just sit around and do the normal routine, all you have to do is to go and hit your nearest nightclub or bar and there you will be able to find quite a few women that are available and open to meeting a guy like you. The problem is, if you are not well experienced in approaching women in venues like this, it can seem a little intimidating.

Well, here are 3 tips on how to approach women in bars and nightclubs that should help you to get more than just a dance:

  1. When you approach a woman, keep eye contact, but don’t turn it into a stare.
    A lot of guys will have a hard time when it comes to keeping eye contact with a woman when they approach her, but you don’t want to let your eyes drop to the floor. At the same time, you don’t want it to become a creepy stare. Nothing makes a woman want to get away from a guy quicker than to feel like he is staring her down in a creepy way. The reason why you want to keep eye contact with her is because you want to make sure that she sees your confidence all the while making her feel like there is a «connection» before you even make your approach.
  2. Don’t try and pick her up as much as build rapport with her.
    When guys first go out all amped up to meet and pick up women, they usually make it painfully obvious that they are trying to pick her up as soon as they start talking to her. Rookie mistake right there. It’s more important to make her feel as though she is feeling a strong sense of rapport with you, so that she feels like she is feeling very connected to you.
  3. Don’t make the conversation too serious.
    Serious conversation has it’s time and place, but that does not usually include bars and nightclubs. If you want to bore a woman, if you want he to hope that you go away rather quickly, then by all means make the conversations serious. Otherwise, keep it light and focus on making her feel like she is having a good time with you.

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