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How to Approach Women – 3 Rules to Approaching a Woman

It can be tough to be the guy sometimes. You are always expected to be the one who makes the move, the one that makes the approach, and that can easily leave you feeling a little bit weary. Having to be the one who makes the move can add a lot of pressure to the dating thing, and if you feel like you are not good at doing this, it can keep you from taking the kinds of chances that you need to meet women.

Sometimes, it can seem as though it would just be easier not to make the move at all, but the only thing that will get you is the same thing you have always gotten. So, if you want to see some improvement in the results that you are getting from women, then you have to learn how to approach a woman the right way.

Here are 3 rules to approaching women that you need to know:

  1. Before you make your move, you need to build up your confidence.
    You have to be able to approach a woman as though it’s no big deal and to do that- you need to have confidence. Get yourself amped up and confident enough so that when you walk up to a woman, you don’t look like you are uncomfortable or too eager to make a good impression on her. When you feel like you finally have the confidence that you need to approach her, make your move without even thinking about it.
  2. Know how to open her before you walk over.
    Until you get used to walking up to women on a routine basis, it’s not a bad idea to already have your opener in mind before you walk up to her. It’s good to get to the point where you can do this on the fly without a whole lot of ‘prep’ work, but until you get to that point… have an opener already in mind.
  3. Don’t feel the need to close her, just let it happen.
    Trying to force a close on a woman can end up making you and her feel more uncomfortable and rushed than you need to. When you don’t feel the need to close a woman, to get a date or a number or something else, then you will take a lot of that pressure off of yourself and her as well.
    You really have to know how to approach women if you want to start dating the kind of women that you DREAM about…

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